Hey come visit Nova Scotia! It is beautiful! Has great bars, pubs etc. In Halifax atleast...and there are lots of places out side the capital city to site see if you want a relaxing outdoors experiance. But hey I may be bias
P.S - there is no reason why you cannot get a gov. job just cause you are gay/bi or whatever...but hey I live in Canada
I couldn't agree more about the lack of realsitic girl/girl porn. It almost never seems like they're into it.
Oo, I desperately want to go to Montreal! NYC is always great, and I'll be there by your b-day. I have some friends in Austin and they love it there. Sounds like you have a lot of options.