What's up?? You still stuck on something my ex-girlfriend said months ago?

Think about it, the imaginary story you can make up about this hot guy will inevitably be more satisfying than he, as a real human, could ever be. It's win win.

Dude, whatever. I was not in the coffee shop.

eh, i dont mind it at all when people talk about sex or how great it is..

i love to hear about my friends having a good healthy sex life whether their single or in a relationship its better than hearing them bitch about not getting laid that's the stuff that gets on my last fuckin nerve

as for the guy deal.. erm.. if you were one of my close friends i'd have to hold out your hand so i can slap it cause you should of at least gone up and got his name

ahh well there's more fish in the sea as the saying goes..

edited because i cant believe i didnt tell you Happy St. Patricks Day!!!!!! go out have fun be safe!!!

[Edited on Mar 17, 2005 10:58AM]

Thank you.

i hear you. i talk about sex with my friends but i can't bring myself to brag about it. why? cos its not polite. and who wants to hear people brag about it. jesus, not fun.

I think it's fascism.

Clive "The Driver" Owens. Hmm.

THE PROGRESSION

a) Brag about having had sex once
b) Brag about having had sex several times
c) Brag about having had sex with two different women
d) Brag about having had sex a whole bunch of times with a girlfriend
e) Brag about having had sex with someone other than your girlfriend
f) Brag about having had kinky sex with your girlfriend
g) Brag about having had lots of kinky sex with someone other than your grilfriend
h) Brag about the new girlfriend who likes kinky sex
i) Brag about having sex to your friend who hasn't had any for 9 months
j) Brag about breaking up with the complete nutjob girlfriend who liked kinky sex
k) Figure out how to brag about not having had sex for 9 months to your friend who is having lots of sex

-j


[Edited on Mar 17, 2005 10:47PM]

I'll post the replies once the whole email conversation is done, if it's interesting anyways.

I think a cursory reference to sex during an entry about an evening is perfectly acceptable. But describing sex a la ASSTR, then one is getting a bit too much.

About the hot-guy and then probably not liking him:

My roommate said "I got a new third-party Windows theme, which increases my nerd appeal"
Me: "nerd appeal?"
Him: "Yeah, it's the reciprocal of sex appeal"
Us: "Hahahahaha"

Howdy, there, sister.

I'm wary of posting anything here because you think I'm a reefer smokin' hippie, and you apparently don't like that sort of thing. I'm certainly no hippie, however, regardless of the amount of of grass I smoke.

In any case, there are plenty of folks out there who like to verify their paltry existence by throwing their meager accomplishments in your face. They went to school here or there, they majored in this or that, they make some shit amount of money, or even the lowliest accomplishment of all: "hey, I fucked so-and-so" or such and such, or whatever.

Fuck 'em. It's best to simply know that you are head and shoulders above the fuckin' douchebags.

Mayhap we'll talk more about this in the future. Hell, I'm 3000 miles away and have no interest in stalking you, so what could it hurt?

johnny depp jude law and clive owenss?? thats it.?..what about chris cornell?

Glad it made it intact.

Thanks for the comment in Fan Art -- I've posted a caricature of you in the thread if you want to check it out.

I don't have anything to brag about right now.

and what about when they brag by just dropping it in psuedo-casually, like, "But then I couldn't make it because so-and-so came over, and we had some, well some great sex, really." Or when they go the long way around, saying something like, "Wow, I've got to call [fuck-buddy] up or something because, man, I haven't had sex in like five days." Those people piss me off.

Maybe that is the case, that the fantasy we have built up in our heads about people we find attractive is better than the reality, but people will surprise you sometimes. Most of the time we never get past that gawking-awe stage to find out for sure though.

Neat. You and I have the same taste in ridiculously hot and unattainable celebrities.

Well, at least you know I'll never brag to you about having had sex. (Well, good sex, anyway.)

By the way, I don't know if I told you, but a friend of mine from Knott's actually got to sit next to Johnny Depp during an awards show a few months ago. (she is one of those people who works as a "sat filler" for awards shows.)

I was so envious.

People that gloat in general are pretty lame. It seems gloating only makes you look like an asshole to others, and sours what you have to yourself. But I guess other people feel the need to convince themselves they're awesome because they think others might not believe it otherwise. Like I said, lame.

I'm bummed I forgot you were in Portland, or I totally would've asked if you wanted to meet up real quick while I was in town. I met pretty much everyone else I wanted to, except Nixon but that was lack of proper communication and I've had the pleasure of her company a couple times before. I'm going back up in May though so I guess I'll have another chance.

I just wanted to say thanks again for indirectly bringing Venice to the site I commented once before I think saying she wanted to be an SG after she saw you in class. Granted, I wouldn't blame her, you were one of my original favs and still are.

And what happened to Chris Cornell?

See?

Other people besides me think you're smokin' hot.

You find it challenging to meet people, men specifically, that you connect with? Hmmm. I used to have that problem but have recently had this strange bout of confidence and this new ability to speak to almost anyone at any time. It's really odd and for someone who used to be deaf and dumb shy, a really strange experience. It's nice though, but I don't think it'll be a constant in my life. I think it's more likely to be some odd shift in the powers that be that will surely revert to some other orbit sooner or later.

Re: talking shit about getting sex easily, I always found that was a totally 7th grade tactic that made it pointedly clear you weren't actually doing anything remotely sexual beyond masturbating furiously on a regular basis. As the years go on and I hear older people commenting on it, I just think they lack any sense of appropriate boundaries and also have issues with sexuality in general. It's odd. In my experience, women seem to speak far more openly about sex to one another than men in my circle of friends ever have. I think I'm fine with that.

Where I am, or where you are?

(Sorry for the lateness of my reply, I was in Manhattan.)