Asking your boyfriend that seems pretty justified when you explain your reasons. I'm sure things'll turn out to be fine.
I don't really have anything against October. A bunch of minor but irritating things just happened to me yesterday and I looked at the calender and realized it was October and said, "OCTOBER! " and my voice was drenched with hate so I took to the internet and expressed my strong, but misguided feelings. Oh, why do we hurt the months we love....
I always feel like a stalker when I read people's journals and never say anything, and I usually read yours, so...yes. Based solely on your entries and most of what comments I've seen you post in threads, I think you're awesome. Don't give me that look; I'm not creepy.
Regarding you not being able to be friends with females, I think that's unfairly common. It's been a major theme in my life, that's for sure. I think it's just that more often than not, you can't shoot things straight to other women, as you could to a man; or, like you mentioned about female code kind of things, you lose all your points when you open your mouth and break some unknown rule. I do that. A lot. As much as I've been known to jump on that bandwagon of ripping a new asshole to the guys who fall back on All Chicks are Crazy, I can see why they'd think that about a hefty portion of them. It's just totally...true.
I hope you've been able to talk things out with your boyfriend and get everything straightened up.
OK, so I admit I'm lazy and didn't read it all, I'm at work so I don't have much time but I want to try to hit some of my friends up... BUT I do see it's boyfriend trouble, so I say I am sorry, I hate that shit, but you know, I've realized relationship trouble is better than being lonely. It's hard for me to be friends with girls too, but once I am, it's a good bond that I don't try to fuck with. Thank god BodyBagRomance is cool with me having so many male friends, else I think I'd be in trouble! I just get along better with guys in general.
Come to Hardcore Karaoke tomorrow night??
*gets down on knees and begs*
Pleeeeease?
weddings usually spell disaster for me... because there are always a whole lot of inquiring old aunties who want to know if i have a "boyfriend" ... and unfortunately i'm not about to lie to an old lady.
so mostly i just omit the truth...
and enjoy the open bar.
my philosophy on atkins vs. SBD is this: the harder it is for you to do something, the better it is for you. atkins will help you to lose a lot of weight very quickly, if you follow the rules, but you will also see your cholesterol and sodium intake shoot through the roof. so i guess it all depends on your priorities.
you were in the right. this is a guy that you have feelings for and have had open discussions about this moving in business with. to hear that you might not even be on the same page is very shocking and uncomfortable. i would have done the same thing you did. the only difference is that i wouldn't have felt bad about it. girlfriends are bad news anyway. a lot of girls see another happy girl and get jealous. next thing you know she fucks your relationship up and she's nowhere to be found. at least that is what i have experience with girlfriends. it's hard to trust anyone these days, but if you really trust him and you have a gut feeling that he's playing it stright with you, go with that. fuck that girl. it's really none of her business and for her to make her business is a very tacky move on her part. hope i made you feel a little better!
I don't really have anything against October. A bunch of minor but irritating things just happened to me yesterday and I looked at the calender and realized it was October and said, "OCTOBER!