I do laundry and dishes and all that jazz for boyfriends. Haha. Maybe that's my problem... I jump right into the wifey position. Maybe that's why I get attached so quickly and end up so hurt when things end. Hm.
I am also sry to hear that boy drama is stressing you out hun..Dont let it get you down. Keep that pretty face of yours up.
Here is my two cents ( which you prolly know, but this is just support, that you have the right state of mind..)
Just make sure you keep communicating with him everything you told us ,and dont hold anything back. He wants the responsiblity of being your lover, he needs to act like it. As you know relationships are work, not just a way to take a advantage of someone, so you get taking care of. On that note, I think he has/is taking advantage of you, because you do all the wifey things. If he wants to be Bf/Gf , like you said, you need to be able to rely on him to do his own chores...your not his wife and he needs to allow you not to act like one. I dont know the whole story but it sounds like you are trying and he really isnt. He wants things handed to him. Tell him that. Tell him exactly how you feel. Also I have learned from expierence, never accuse him of doing things to hurt you, rather say "I FEEL like you are hurting me when..."