how happily unfortunate.....i had a horrible relationship with my father...even spent the night in jail thanks to him....long story short he attacked me in the car, i fought back, jumped out when the car slowed enough, then got arrested while waiting for my mum to come pick me up...dad called the cops on me, lovely. i was told by the police that my wounds were from me attacking him so i spent 27 hours in jail, then had to take 20 anger management classes at 20 bucks a pop, and he got nothing...good times. needless to say i completely cut him out of my life after that. years later his best friend died, then his mum. he came around i gave him another shot. it was rocky at first, but towards the end our relationship was ace and what it should have been all along. unfortunately after making peace with me and my mum he killed himself. sad really, but i think it was for the better. he was really sick and had no life left, was simpley just existing.
hrmmmm....sorry if that wasnt the best story to relay. i guess what im trying to say is, i understand what youre going through <555
oh yea and on a side note that whole jail expercience mixed with a few horrible experiences in my youth involving school truant officers has left me with a horrible fear of being arrested for something i didnt do. i have at the very least 1 nightmare a month involving the police and me being arrested for no reason....aw therapy =]
that was meant tomake you laugh by the way, hehe,me and my fucked up senseof humor