...and continuing on the "people I know are mostly dumbasses"
had a random person want to "friend" me - without any pics to figure out who they were
messaging them, I discover - lo! and behold! - they're one of my ex-g/f's first ex-husband, who reminded me he had f'd her in a hottub in the first week of my dating her - and that I'd met him twice... and still wants to befriend me !!
*yeesh*
to follow suit the same day another ex-g/f's ex-husband tried to friend me, with a similar situation ( they had f'd said ex-g/f while I had been dating said ex-g/f )
why in the 7 hells are people who f'd my then-g/fs suddenly wanted to befriend me - or having expectations that we're good enough "friends" that I'm the person they can turn to for help ?!?