I know we all silently judge and have problems with people. I'm sure a lot of us do it with our friends not just other people we don't know. What happens when you realize that other person's intent or the meaning of that backhanded comment? This is your friend, do you take it and laugh? What if it's something that hits home? I feel like I'm not like others if I have an issue big enough to cause problem I let it be heard in a calm professional way. If I have a problem I walk away or I deal with it. We all talk shit me included, but it's how we live shit that matters.