How do you fix a broken life? I'm stuck in a feedback loop and I can't seem to break free. I'm a married woman who hates sex. And after 14 years with my husband, He's had enough. He tells me there's nothing wrong with me. That I'm normal, and he's the problem. That he just has to figure out how to see me as a friend and not a lover. I break his heart every time I turn him down, and every time I don't. He knows I'm doing it just to keep him happy, not because I enjoy it. I feel so broken inside. Why can't I enjoy happy healthy sex with my husband? Why does it feel like a chore? How do I find a way to be his lover? I can't stand breaking his heart, and I know I'm losing him. On Monday I will start searching for a therapist who can fix what's broken inside me. I just hope I'm not too late.
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I do have a theory though is that the need to have sex is being removed from women, because having babies is no longer necessary, and sex not needed to have them either. Just a theory, but I believe it to be true, based on HOW many people say this exact thing about sex. Neither of you is the problem. It just is.