siriuswhite

Strange Brew!! And Monty Python (although I like Life of Brian best, ANYthing Python rocks my bnoat)!

Yay you.

Ok. I should read your blog.

I wish there was a place that my Boy could learn a little more about BDSM. Well, both of us. I would like him to learn more about the dominant side of things. . .

Congratulations. It makes me long for my own dom to surrender too, but since that takes exactly what you mentioned - trust, love, and dedication - it may not happen for a while. Gosh, will you fully enjoy and use her for me and then post it here so I can live vicariously through you? I'm just kidding. Congratulations again. I hope that the love lasts, the trust grows, and that each of your experiences make wonderful memories that you can look back on for years and look forward to for even more. <sob> I think I'll go wallow in my self pity now.

Thanks for the add. I look forward to coming comments, blogs, and info from you. It's nice to hear some wisdom.

This is so great to see, because I have a friend who is going through this very dilemma: born a sub and not being able to see examples of acceptance of it in the Christian culture. Yeah. So I've got to save these things to my favorites and bring him over here sometime. Thanks for the info, Sirius.

My responses to the above numbered items.

1. I am not against. I am fiercely private. Even having a journal goes against my grain. I respect that.

2. This is the one that bothers me. You ask me to come again, on bended knee and be judged by you. I have an issue with that. I don't care what the criteria is, to be judged by others is to submit to their value system. I don't. It's the way I am to define my own value and value those that are with me... be they friend or sub. Perhaps it's viewed as a personality flaw by some. Perhaps it's viewed as egotism... either way I don't care.

Any time you exclude, you demean. It doesn't matter if it is because someone has blue eyes, is right handed, has a different ethnic background... or doesn't post much. Exclusion doesn't make things exclusive. It forces people to conform.

I will resubmit after 90 days because my dedication to the material, the community, and those that are willing to place their care in to my posession is strong. I will not do so gladly.

I do want to thank you for pointing me to the Shibari group. I'm still learning my way around here and appreciate the assistance.

Sirius

[Edited on Mar 28, 2006 3:19PM]

You're right.

But then the irony is, to join any group is an act of conformity and opens you to judgment by others.

Join SG, and conform to their rules, if you want to stay on the site. If they judge that you've broken any, they boot you.

Join Hellfire Club, Dykes on Bikes, Boyscouts or the PTA and sure enough you have to conform or not participate, leaving yourself open to judgment from others.

Belonging can be a vicious cycle.

that so sucks, i am at least glad that you had to sit through it and not me. how did this movie get so fucked up?

After some thought... there were a few good visuals. Some of the minor effects were good. Milia Jovovich looked good (liked the hair and clothing changes... like a different woman every time)... but still it was the worst movie of the year.

Ok, I didn't see Brokeback Mtn... so it might not have been the worst, but it was up there.

Sirius

did you want to get together today?

Sorry, don't log in enough to catch your question here :p You did track me down though

Hello. Sin told me to stop by and say hello.

Hiya!

Hi! Congratulations.

i was instructed by master sinjun to say hello.

-hello