Well that was awkward. The girl I had been chasing for some 4 months. The one that stayed at my house every night and told me we weren't in a relationship. The one that had copious amounts of sex with me... Then ran into a new guy whom she claimed was everything she ever wanted. She met him and in a day decided he was her forever. Right! Well she wanted me to meet him. I happened to be very stoned at the time of the request and much to the dismay of my roommate whom has seen me go through the ups and downs of this disastrous situation, I said yes. Like I said I suck at saying no. So I went to a local bar to meet this perfect guy. Stoned outa my mind. I get super quite when I'm stoned. If ya know me you know that's a very different me than most people are used to. So there I am beer in hand playing pool with the girl I loved and the guy she now loves. She keeps looking at me like... he's amazing right? Let's just start out by saying this guy has douche written all over him. Head to toe. Military Asshole. Yet I put that aside to see him as she might. One he's ugly as fuck. his eyebrows start in the middle of his eyes and drop off to the sides. O.o I couldn't look at him without thinking of that mole moment from Austin Powers 2. Just kept thinking OMG his eyebrows. Top that off with a huge penis vein running down the middle of his head. I would have been ok if she had chosen a hot guy over me. I mean then at least I could have thought, "well he's really hot!" No such luck. My roommate showed up and said we should all go to the bar district. So we left and hit up the ville. I stopped in Kathouse because a beautiful friend of mine was smiling at me through the window. In Kathouse I ran into my Ex Simone. Bless her heart she is drop dead gorgeous. She joined our group. Odd thing about me I am actually pretty close with all my Ex's. Anyway we head to another bar and just hang out and drink. Her boy keeps interjecting into our conversations. Trying really hard. Kelly did fine but he was pushing really hard. Kelly was the only one laughing at anything he said. Somehow, we got on the subject of nasty vagina's. Which lead him to fully vouch for hers not being so. Like saying, "Hey everyone we have sex." It was everything I could do not to reiterate yeah I've been there. Still i played the bigger man. Then as Kelly got a little drunker she got way more friendly with me. At this point the weed had worn off and I could talk again. So we were going back and forth. I brought up her smelly feet and this apparently embarrassed or offended her. I didn't care. Still this guy was just haunting our table. Like there but not part of it. Most of us were just kinda weirded out by him. after i talked to others after the night. Kelly's other friends that had joined us weren't even sitting with us. Another good sign. sigh. Every chance he got he would put his hands on her, or pull her in for a kiss... classic douche dominance play. Like leaving a girl on a leash and letting everyone around you know she's mine. The girls I usually date don't stand for that shit. We all like our freedom. PDA is fine when it's both of us but when it's just one of us nervous well that's just annoying. Anyway, I got a serious vibe that this guy didn't like me, didn't like the closeness Kelly and I had and so anytime we would get all like ourselves he would be there to pull her back. My Ex had to go so I walked her home real quick on the way she looked at me and said, "I don't get why you are even out here with her. Are you just trying to torture yourself." At this point it really felt like it. I felt like I was submitting myself to full on mental torture so I would fully cut heart strings with this girl. So the feelings I felt would be torn from me for good. That seemed to be happening really fast. She wanted to go to IHOP or something after that. I said I had to work early so we went our separate ways. She demanded a hug and the kind I used to give her. That embrace was given but he was right there looking at me like I was stealing something from him. God it was really weird. The next day she texts me about how much fun she had, and how glad she was I came out to hang. I responded in kind. She then told me this guy adored us. Me and my friends. Now I pick my friends very carefully. Those that get close to me are such because we have a crazy connection. I had no connection with this guy at all. Maybe it's because he got the girl I wanted, either way I didn't feel anything from him. I said yeah we are fun, she re texted he adores us. I knew she was wanting me to say something about him. I just said yeah we are all pretty crazy. Yeah that's a pile of dynamite I am not ready to light just yet. She'll ask again and honestly I don't know if I have the heart to tell her what i really think of the guy. Oh well. At least after that night I know this whole random confusing mess is done.
2papatoast2:
very much feel sorry for you,but life is full of the things that piss us off and just don't go right....i feel ya
saintpepsi:
Yeah such is life, just gotta pick up the pieces and move on