sailorfrank

I checked out the set. Very nice.

have a great time. At least you wont be freezing your ass of like I am up her

I so wish you lived closer to me....

Menotyousaid:
"Yes, there are groups for those things. That's where those things are appropriate. It would be inappropriate for me to go into the cockworshiping group and start a thread about the philosophy of Ayn Rand if it has nothing to do with cockworship. That conversation is appropriate in the book or philosophy group.

The Houston group is not a place to solicit dates or girls to shoot photosets with. "

It definitely is not.
And if you were in the New York regional group you would have been kicked out.

There are a SG photogs hopefuls group for shooting a set.
And I am sure there are places to solicit dates on here, i.e. Boards-I am single. Or how about match.coM?

In your regional group is not the place for either and that is majorally creepy! I am sure that it makes many people in the group feel very uncomfortable. And I am sure that is not your intent, but put yourself in someone else's shoes. How would you feel if you were on a site where you are showing your vunerable self and felt that someone was trying to take advantage of that?

a lot of assumptions and inaccuracies were made in the above comment and it really pisses me off.

if only I was in Texas...

I'm glad for you!

Believe it or not I still get that silly new love feel for the hubby, even after almost 9 years.

I believe it. That feeling can be forever if you let it. With or without new loves who come along.

Can I watch her beg too?
I'm sorry I screwed up your birthday Frank. I wanted to be there.

Sure you can watch her beg.

But you didn't screw up my birthday love, I just missed having you there to share in the fun with me. There is a big difference.

I think the decision to be polygamous or monogamous really depends on the person you're with. I've done both, and I don't like the assumption of monogamy that occurs in most relationships, but when you're with somebody you really love, at least for me, I find I don't WANT to be in multiple relationships. I don't think one person can ever be everything you want or need, but that's why you have various kinds of relationships in your life: friends, family, lovers, etc. I guess it all depends on how much importance you place on physical expressions of love, because that's the part that usually makes things messy. Right now, I value my monogamous relationship with my boyfriend more than sleeping with a variety of other people. If it ever becomes an issue where I am more and more tempted by other partners, then we'd have to discuss. But for now, I really don't want or need anyone else in my love life, and I like being monogamous.

sigh...
He is talking about not limiting yourself and making needless rules.
It's fine to love only one peron and have sex with only one person, but why make a rule that tells you to shut out other possiblilities?? Why upset yourself or your partner with the term cheating? Why put yourself through a guilt trip if you end up falling in love with a close friend?
And it's not about valuing your relationship more than sleeping with multiple people, because poly is not about sleeping around. It's about being free, you shouldn't have to choose between your partner and someone else. Why not be open to both?

now this I would have loved to see!!!! definitely seems more my style than sailing. Happy Birthday!

Thanks you guys.

Jenna, nothing says that sailing is the only activity that can happen while out on the boat you know.