I've heard the phrase "Confidence is contagious" throughout my life, The problem for me is that I could never seem to catch it. Lately I seem to be infected. I've been doing some of the best design work I've ever done.
I think that the breakup was the catalyst for this. I basically threw myself into the work and cut out a bunch of bullshit and for once I've been able to concentrate on things. I guess through pain can comes some clarity.
I'm feeling much better about the future.