Wunderbar. It works.
Ok. Some background.
I'm not really who I appear to be. "option_a" is a second net handle, seeing as I am known within a reasonably close group of people by my primary name. I don't want the two names associated though, for fear of many things, the largest being the fact that my partner would find it and then proceed to rip my face off.
I'm due to make a new start in life soon. I've bought a house and have been doing it up for the past god-knows-how-long, and it feels like my life is in tatters. It's not as I know it, Jim.
I've only had sex once in the last four months. I'm part of a loving relationship but other things are taking their toll at the moment - she is suffering from cranky joints and various other conditions that shouldn't affect anyone in their forties, never mind early twenties (which she is).
I know she loves me, and I love her - more than words alone can describe.
But like I say. I'm making a new start in life but there's some things I want to get off my chest, some things I just want to talk about, even if it is to a bunch of strangers. It's nothing revelatory - merely tales of ex-girlfriends, fetishes and things that will never happen for as long as myself and my partner are together, which with any luck will be forever.
I am notorious for living in the past. I need to get some of my past off my mind just so that I can move forward.
It happens here.
I'd be interested to hear people's opinions on what I write. Whatever the hell you want to say, just say it. It's just nice to be able to get this out of my system once and for all.
And for what it's worth... I joined SG for the community, not the girls.
Ok. Some background.
I'm not really who I appear to be. "option_a" is a second net handle, seeing as I am known within a reasonably close group of people by my primary name. I don't want the two names associated though, for fear of many things, the largest being the fact that my partner would find it and then proceed to rip my face off.
I'm due to make a new start in life soon. I've bought a house and have been doing it up for the past god-knows-how-long, and it feels like my life is in tatters. It's not as I know it, Jim.
I've only had sex once in the last four months. I'm part of a loving relationship but other things are taking their toll at the moment - she is suffering from cranky joints and various other conditions that shouldn't affect anyone in their forties, never mind early twenties (which she is).
I know she loves me, and I love her - more than words alone can describe.
But like I say. I'm making a new start in life but there's some things I want to get off my chest, some things I just want to talk about, even if it is to a bunch of strangers. It's nothing revelatory - merely tales of ex-girlfriends, fetishes and things that will never happen for as long as myself and my partner are together, which with any luck will be forever.
I am notorious for living in the past. I need to get some of my past off my mind just so that I can move forward.
It happens here.
I'd be interested to hear people's opinions on what I write. Whatever the hell you want to say, just say it. It's just nice to be able to get this out of my system once and for all.
And for what it's worth... I joined SG for the community, not the girls.
Welcome.