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Many, many new thoughts of late!

One I would like to bring up, is something I felt was such a lovely metaphor, I have to share.

This was said to my youngest brother (9 years of age), by my stepfather, after the brother was caught lying.

"Trust is like a house of cards. Every time you do something in earnest, (tell the truth, follow through...
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bromopar:
Well as one former swinger to another potential swinger I can safely say one thing. If you have any sort of insecurities or tend to be the jealous type then swinging is going to be a big mistake. Now insecurites I mean BIG ones like whenever he looks at another girl you think he wants her more than you not insecurities like does think my boobs are too small. Moving forward I can also safely say that swinging can be a A LOT of fun. I've personally had three threesomes myself and I loved all three of them, in fact me and my current girlfriend Phoenixgirl have considered that very same thing ourselves but we've put off any sort of solid decision until later on. My personal advice in the end is to try a threesome, or both of you go to a strip club and check out the girls there. If there is a sex club in the area then check it out and watch others. Fantasies are a wonderful thing and in my experiance the wilder the fantasy the better. We're kinky like that so I say go for it!
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I've been inactive here lately, I'm kind of in a limbo right now where spring fever has hit, and I'm hating sitting on my ass all day in front of the computer; I'm tired of my lack of energy, tired of being tired all the time, and finally focusing a bit on the environment around me.
When we moved in to this apartment, we just...
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kizz:
Everywhere you are living feels like home. And not just for me, I think. You make people comfortable with your non-judgmental attitude and giant huggable boobies. Who cares if the couch doesn't match the rug. Or the drapes don't match the rug. Or something.
kidego:
do what you gotta do girly.. but you can balance both. I've been way less active too.. just stop in once in a while to check my messages.. not that there are any... but its all good.

Enjoy the nice weather.
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Sidenote appendix postscript:


Why can't I change my favorite friends? Is it the new ui?
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flyer:
smile happy birthday! smile
gigondas:
Damn, sorry I missed your birthday. Hope you had a great one and that you are well. biggrin
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Alright, so the past 2 weeks I've somewhat distanced myself from the site, a bit.
I have had some passing self esteem issues of late, and yes, I am shallow enough to admit that seeing a plethora of skinny legged, flat tummied, perky assed wee girls have kind of blown some wind out of my sails.

This sounds so ridiculous, even as I type it...
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optimusmime:
We've already discussed at length my thoughts in response to your feelings about the site. Please don't jump to labeling your feelings as "ridiculous" or "silly", if those are the labels you're using. As far as dealing with the pain of your mom's passing, you know I'm always here for whatever you need, that goes without saying.

And you pretty fucking awesome, yourself.
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So today I cut off a foot of hair, and it's going to be donated to Locks of Love. ^_^
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brielle:
Hell-o new friend!..Ohh Locks of Love...thats Awsome!
vaughannegut:
dewd...i meant to say that your hair looks awesome. optimusmime is a lucky guy...smile oh yeah, and way to go with the charity...
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Today is the one year anniversary of my mother's death; more specifically, the one year anniversary of my mother's death, which was the result of a suicide by hanging.

I feel kind of numb today, more listless than usual, at least mentally. Maybe I didn't sleep all that well last night. Who knows.

I do know I miss her, more than anything in the world;...
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kidego:
wow, yesterday must have been a very trying day for you, but from the looks of it, you have a guy who you can lean on when life might seem to get you down. Thats great. I hope you don't dwell on the negativity too much, and just appreciate the good things/times
bromopar:
I'm sorry for your loss. Suicide is a tough one to take but with any luck she is as you hope at peace where she is now in her new existence. This may sound strange but now is a time of joyful remembrance. Rember her for the good things you know in your heart and the blessed memories you shared with her in life. You are well, she is well and life rolls on.
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Hokay, I saw the new movie, Blades of Glory tonight with the BF.
Funny movie.

Best part, however, was when Pammy from 'The Office', opens her hotel room wide open, and is wearing a corset/bodice, lovely frilly underwear, and thigh highs and heels. My jaw dropped to the ground, and a very audible "Wow..." escaped my lover's lips. She looked so amazing. So very different...
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brisette:
Yeah, men thongs aren't really that hot, at all actually.
vanish:
i have to disagree... men's boxer briefs are so incredibly sexy to me... love
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I love it when my boyfriend rocks out to Dragonforce. love
optimusmime:
I love it when you walk in front of me. love love love
bromopar:
I've never heard of them personally but I can see how you would enjoy watching your guy rock out.
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We just watched "An Inconvenient Truth" tonight.

Whatever feeling I had previous of "I feel like I'm not doing enough", has now turned into "I feel like I'm not doing anything". blackeyed

Why the hell are so many people against the idea of global warming?
What is the big freaking deal to admitting it is real, and then doing something about it?
Why do I feel...
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kidego:
what I don't understand is that nobody really debates that the pollutants were emitting can't possibly be GOOD for the atmosphere.. yet nobody wants to do anything about fixing it. They just want to argue whether they feel the pollutants are contributing to the issue of global warming. Lets look at facts.. your polluting the air that I have to breathe... please stop.. I don't really care if you think its causing global warming or not.
gigondas:
That's great that your name has real personal significance about it. Mine just what I used to call me and my best frien when we aere at the bar(every night) and not dating anyone.
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So crap much in my brain right now.

I wish I wasn't so fucked up in the head sometimes.


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dark_templar:
My buddy lived across the street from the Prune Yard.........

.............that place would drive you crazy when you had a good buzz, especially when it came to parkingwink
subnatural:
Some of the best people are fucked up in the head.

I know I am.