Since I know no one is reading this it is pretty easy to write stuff here.
Never get married so you don't ever have to get divorced. It is an expensive, time consuming, and incredibly emotionally draining experience.
The only good thing is that we didn't really own anything so there won't be much fighting about that but we do have two children and the custody dispute is only beginning. Hopefully it won't get nasty and we will be able to agree on things without a judge getting into it.
I am also dreading being single again. I have to relearn about the things I like to do versus all the old things that "we" liked to do. Being short and rather socially challenged I wasn't much of a player before I got married and since I haven't had much practice in the last seven years or so I don't really know where to start either making new friends or finding someone to be more intimate with.
Overall it is scary and stressful and probably not the best time to also quit smoking, drinking, and to look for a new job. Oh well.
Never get married so you don't ever have to get divorced. It is an expensive, time consuming, and incredibly emotionally draining experience.
The only good thing is that we didn't really own anything so there won't be much fighting about that but we do have two children and the custody dispute is only beginning. Hopefully it won't get nasty and we will be able to agree on things without a judge getting into it.
I am also dreading being single again. I have to relearn about the things I like to do versus all the old things that "we" liked to do. Being short and rather socially challenged I wasn't much of a player before I got married and since I haven't had much practice in the last seven years or so I don't really know where to start either making new friends or finding someone to be more intimate with.
Overall it is scary and stressful and probably not the best time to also quit smoking, drinking, and to look for a new job. Oh well.