jozsef:
So what would that be? IĀ imagine you've heard of a self fulfilling prophesy. It's not mysticism but simply the quality of effort we put into something when we know it's pretty much a waste of time. One central ingredient of great success is refusing to give up, so hoping to sprout wings and fly is a quest worth abandoning quickly but finding someone we can share our life with, for example, is not a foolish fantasy, nor is a meaningful and satisfying career. I know I grabbed this and ran with it, so sorry if it's making a mountain out of a molehill. ā¤ļø
gumballhead:
Being happy with what you have.