I am an Alpha Male. I do believe in Gender roles and I do believe there are major differences between Male and Female. I've had many discussions in which people have tried to convince me that Men and Women are exactly the same in every way. I could not disagree more and I think that's what makes life, love, and relationships special. The role of a man or woman isn't better or worse, it's just different.
This way of thinking somehow makes me evil, or a monster in most peoples eyes. In fact I wouldn't be writing this on any other site other than SG because any other minds wouldn't be open enough to hear it. It would be dismissed as sexism and an old way of thinking. People are entitled to their own opinions, but mine is that our instincts never change, and therefore these concepts can never be outdated.
Misunderstood is probably a major force behind most people joining SG. I was exactly the same way. I'm not normal and I have very different perspectives on life than most, as I'm sure many SG members do. As an Alpha male I am forward, direct, and what many would consider insulting. I call girls bitches, expect certain things from them, and believe they should listen and respect my opinion. Many men walking around today call themselves "Alpha Males" believing that's all there is to being Dom, but a true Alpha Male should know better.
An Alpha is a leader and has a responsibility to the girl who is giving him her mind, body, and soul. It's his job to protect her and keep her safe. It's his job to understand her and read her emotions. It's his job to push her to do new things, and to back off when she's had enough. It's his job to hold her when she's crying, and make her laugh when she's down. It's his job to lead her in positive directions. He should be stern and unyielding, but patient and understanding. He has to find the balance between being aggressively dominant while being open to her feelings and experiences. A balance most never can attain.
As you can imagine, I am heavily criticized for my beliefs. I have been slapped, kicked, insulted, and worse. The thousands of so called Alpha Males out there have given us all a bad name. They take freely without worrying about the responsibilities that come with the title. In my eyes, these are just fakes who pretend to be grown ass men. In any case, I will not change who I am or the beliefs I have. This is how I feel and how I grew up. I will continue to behave and act in a way most will never agree with or understand, and hope that those with deeper thoughts and open minds will prevail.