From jj82
Agreed. It’s definitely a generation “me before you” deal. But I also am totally glad you are the kind of parent who understands her kids. I genuinely respect the hell out of you for that. A few months ago my eldest godson son, who has no other positive male influences in his life. Asked me out of nowhere “ uncle Josh? What did my doctor mean when he said I was starting puberty?” The doctor did not explain it. And I explained it, best I could. And I told his mom how I explained it. And she could not comprehend why he didn’t want to ask his mommy about it. And I said “ calm the hell down. Did you ask your dad about your first period?” He asked me because I am the only constant man in their lives. I let her know as a courtesy. I explained to him about puberty. And that he needs to be respectful to women, etc. what is appropriate and what isn’t. That kid knows too call me when he needs male guidance. Period. She gets that now. Someday I would like to correspond with you about something that is not about issues, my dear. Maybe me shutting the fuck up about my life? I really do appreciate you and your patience.