COULD IT BE KARMA?
I just found out that this female that I really like is dating some other guy but didn't want to tell me at all. I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean but I know she did it so we could remain friends. Last time she told me about some guy she was dealing with, I about had a nervous breakdown. Which shows that she cares about how I feel. Then again, I didn't tell about girls I dated (hehe). But they don't count since they sort of rejected me but didn't (long story).
The fact that these feelings came around when I was in a long distance makes me wonder if its karma. Mind you, we never did anything with another (and no, I didn't cheat). But just for feeling like this, I wonder if its the way of the universe paying me back for feeling this way. Maybe that just my paranoia talking.
Its one of those things where you just get too close to someone and then, found out how great that person is. You want to remind them each day that but being there for them in the sense of a relationship. My friends don't think she's really good for me. One of my close friends that knows her well told me that I shouldn't deal with her. Since my way of thinking is more focused and she's all over the place all the time......it shows a great deal of contrast between us. Which could lead to problems. I figure....the more I concentrate on other things, the less it would be my concern. But it sucks to feel a certain about someone and never recieve that feelign in return and yet remain close to them. One of the hardest feelings I've ever had to deal with.
I just found out that this female that I really like is dating some other guy but didn't want to tell me at all. I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean but I know she did it so we could remain friends. Last time she told me about some guy she was dealing with, I about had a nervous breakdown. Which shows that she cares about how I feel. Then again, I didn't tell about girls I dated (hehe). But they don't count since they sort of rejected me but didn't (long story).
The fact that these feelings came around when I was in a long distance makes me wonder if its karma. Mind you, we never did anything with another (and no, I didn't cheat). But just for feeling like this, I wonder if its the way of the universe paying me back for feeling this way. Maybe that just my paranoia talking.
Its one of those things where you just get too close to someone and then, found out how great that person is. You want to remind them each day that but being there for them in the sense of a relationship. My friends don't think she's really good for me. One of my close friends that knows her well told me that I shouldn't deal with her. Since my way of thinking is more focused and she's all over the place all the time......it shows a great deal of contrast between us. Which could lead to problems. I figure....the more I concentrate on other things, the less it would be my concern. But it sucks to feel a certain about someone and never recieve that feelign in return and yet remain close to them. One of the hardest feelings I've ever had to deal with.
ive always seemed to come out ok.
<3 good luck.
i think you are right that you should concentrate on other things. often your feelings for someone will pass.