Jon Bon kind of day

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"Ugly"

If you're ugly, I'm ugly too
In your eyes the sky's a different blue
If you could see yourself like others do
You'd wish you were as beautiful as you, yeah
And I wish I was a camera sometimes
So I could take your picture with my mind
Put it in a frame for you to see
How beautiful you really are to me...
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almost_missed:
Totally agree with you man! Girls nowadays just can't see the beauty in themselves even if they do they still feel that isn't enough. Always end up seeking affirmation of themselves but always in the wrong places and end up getting hurt =\
abjester:
I dont think its about "girls nowadays can't" but rather society puts alot more pressure upon todays women I turned on the T.V. today and within one hour this was what I was told women should be "lose weight get the guy, feel good the way you are, dress pretty, dare to be different, perfect smile, perfect abs, new makeup, new hair, dont change, smoke, dont smoke, drink, dont drink, tighter bum, better smile, be strong and independent, dont be overconfident, your meant to be with a man, its okay to be gay...." is it any wonder why a girl today has trouble growing into the woman she wants to be? The worst part is its not even a gender blame game anymore, women are doing this to eachother now as much as men do it to them. Its time people stop pushing their own ideals on other people and just love one another for who they are, help when asked but stay quiet otherwise!

Vlog?

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Okay so I am realizing nobody gives a crap about what I look like or what I sound like, whats even more important is that I am not ashamed! So as I am having a 3 day weekend for our Family Day Holiday I figure I will make a vlog but I have no clue as to what I should talk about or the overall...
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abjester:
Ha Ill translate it @kirbie some of my best friends are Newfs so I have a pretty good ear for it, and I can call them if you get to confusing ha!
lucerne:
Yes! Anything! Vlogs are so much fun.

No Vlog... yet!

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So I have wrestled with making a Q&A vlog all week... this is a huge step for me because the biggest hurdle for me self esteem wise is my mouth! I am not quite ready to make a vlog yet, it helps only one person posted a question, so I will just answer some queries that have been presented to me since I joined.

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lucerne:
You were accepted here because people here love people for who they are regardless of any body modification or otherwise. Throughout the years, times have changed and it is not so taboo for any of these things to occur anymore, though I think the thought process of most still remains in the olden days of "alternative" or otherwise. People should love people, for who they are! Or not, if they're a baddie ;)
rubblerocks:
Thanks for sharing. I joined SG some years ago but am just now starting to open up and share with people. I'll have to do a fun fact or something like that. I know what you mean about Timmy Ho's. I live just outside of Buffalo and we have franchise's everywhere.

Ok have to plug local(ish) talent

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This is a no brainer for me, she is sweet AND beautiful plus she followed me so obviously she is super intelligent also bahahaha but seriously ppl check out @287258 and get to know her oh and mark April 18 in your calendars for her debut set! Go minions Go!

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almost_missed:
@287258 is incredibly stunning! I must be really smart for following your sight for beauty huh? haha ^^
abjester:
Ha sometimes the apprentice can even lead the master!

Sheep

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Baaaa, I am thinking about giving in, everyone has done a form of Q & A so despite being so new I think Ill offer up one of my own, ask anything and Ill answer, no topic off limits!

almost_missed:
5 fun facts about you that you think others should know! ^^

Sunday

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Sprawled out in the recliner, he drops his elbow onto the armrest, cocks his head to the left, and pinches the bridge of his nose. "hmmmm" he thinks "here we are again my old friend!?" The room is dark, the hum of electronics and the dripping of a faucet the only sounds, nobody shares the old apartment with him, no one is visiting. "I thought...
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damian_stark:
Fucking tremendous, man! Deeply impressed.
mylene:
It's not legal to bring meds to Europe as I understand. And it's not possible to go to Russia with Kiki while she's ill. The thing is that medicine which is being used in Russia is local and I have no idea about French analogs, vetarinarian just did tests and said she can't help. It's strange to me actually. Anyway, hope Kiki is really better. She was vaccinated (last march) against the virus she got, hope it will help.

Girls

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I have traveled far and wide, met AMAZING people, and admired (from afar I have confidence issues) the beauty of the female form! I have smiled upon the sight of many colours, many shapes, many sizes, many forms of self decoration; women are just beautiful to look at, nothing wrong with that, its obvious that unlike peacocks, in our species it is the female that...
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stormyent:
Aw that's so unfortunate! I dress for myself, as I like and sometimes I realize it tends to show off certain aspects of myself (tight pants, low cut tops, etc). As long as somebody isn't creepy about it (I had a man say "isn't this a fine piece of ass!" and that made me feel belittled and objectified) I don't so much mind and I definitely won't go out of my way to be rude. There are so many attractive people in this world, and there is nothing wrong with appreciating the attractiveness so long as it's within respectable boundaries. I often compliment people on things, and get a mix of reactions. Some people don't say a thing, some people light up with joy, and others seem to be uncomfortable. We just have to accept that other's don't feel as open to being complimented, unfortunately. 
abjester:
True, and I respect that, but a person can show dislike without being rude about it... if they had turned and said "please dont" in a firm tone, Id have apologized and all would have be fine on my end, to freak out and belittle a person in a public venue so as to leave them with ongoing shame after you leave is un called for... and damnit UNCANADIAN!!!!

Thinking and thanking

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Not to down play anybody at all but I have been reflecting on my life, and more directly on the two months I have been blessed to be here on SG, this has led me to a list of people I want to mention out loud, and thank! If your not mentioned and think you should be then please comment, I am always looking to...
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abjester:
It really makes life seem so less gloomy when I find time for SG each day, and for all of you who complimented me in comments, please never forget that we are the sum of the people we choose surround ourselves with, the best AND worst of them... so if I am someone to love and adore and commend and compliment, its because YOU are, you give me no negativity to incubate and such all I reflect is positivity, and thats YOU!  We all have days when we feel un loved, ugly, inadequate, empty... on those days gaze upon me and see yourself, note my personal growth and see your own, bathe in my warmth and know your the sun that makes me warm. I cant help you with the beauty part though, the physical doesnt work the same way haha otherwise Id be GOD with you heavenly creatures as friends!
mylene:
Thank you, I'll pet her for you!

@Verarose needs help SG nation unite!

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Go here and VOTE for @Verarose, when I cast my vote it brought the total to 16, the leader is at 303, lets really get behind her on this ppl!

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almost_missed:
Yes I would! But not today too many things on my hands perhaps tomorrow when things are less hectic :)
almost_missed:
You are an really awesome guy too bro! Love the way you are promoting the girls ^^

2 2 2 2 2 2 2 many 2's but I am 2 excited 2 care

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2mrw ladies and gents is the 22nd and to get that you need 2 2's so its only fitting that we get 2 incredible beauties together in MR, first off @velour in Lazuli and 2nd @quiver_ in Hay Fever.... But wait you crazy Jester you said 2 2's and yes if I am not mistaken this is the 2nd set for both and hey lets...
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abjester:
Hearts out for both, best wishes and even some luck though I doubt youll need the luck ladies!
abjester:
Good news all @velour is an SG so everyone take the time to give her love but dont forget to visit @quiver_ and press that little heart on her set, this beauty is also deserving lets not fail her!
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