My stock in trade is to say something funny. But, in your case, my dear, the plain fact is that you will wake up tomorrow as one of the most beautiful women on the planet, and the person you are angry with, will NOT.
I see it as a subtle kind of "body-shaming" and mildly abusive. After all, don't we want Hopefuls to come out of the "closet"? I do. Anything beyond what make-up can do, when applied in moderation, seems to defeat the ideal of "natural beauty" of form and contour. Furthermore, a scar doesn't make a person any less lovable -- it makes the person more lovable, if anything, because of the courage it symbolizes. (e.g. a mastectomy scar) Such inner attributes are where the truest beauty originates. Since this is for "adults only," maybe it'd improve if we all "grew up." :)
I am intrigued by the very idea of the slightest physical imperfection in you . (such as Cindy Crawford's mole) But your wisdom teeth, or ANYTHING that affects your health & happiness is not where it should be.
I don't who was mean to you, but, since you are one of my very favorites, I would like to give them a tongue-lashing with polysyllabic words, and arcane concepts they will never understand, because they must be complete MORONS!
The vast majority of my close friends are women and I've never heard any of them be mean-spirited or nasty (i.e. "Mean Girls') towards other women. If I had, they'd not be my close friends. (I happen to actually LIKE women. It's one of the reasons some of my best friends are lesbians--we have similar tastes!) I learned a long time ago to only allow people into my life who truly like people. I don't allow anyone to stay in my life if they're lacking in kindness, compassion, empathy, and a sense of humor. Life's too short for that shit. We're DESIGNED to love one another!!! It's really the "Meaning of Life" (the Universe, and Everything"). Not 42.