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chrislagoya:
Totally true !!
tahitinut:
I see it as a subtle kind of "body-shaming" and mildly abusive. After all, don't we want Hopefuls to come out of the "closet"?  I do. Anything beyond what make-up can do, when applied in moderation, seems to defeat the ideal of "natural beauty" of form and contour.  Furthermore, a scar doesn't make a person any less lovable -- it makes the person more lovable, if anything, because of the courage it symbolizes. (e.g. a mastectomy scar) Such inner attributes are where the truest beauty originates. Since this is for "adults only," maybe it'd improve if we all "grew up." :) 
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jacinto2:
I don't who was mean to you, but, since you are one of my very favorites, I would like to give them a tongue-lashing with polysyllabic words, and arcane concepts they will never understand, because they must be complete MORONS!
tahitinut:
The vast majority of my close friends are women and I've never heard any of them be mean-spirited or nasty (i.e. "Mean Girls') towards other women.  If I had, they'd not be my close friends.  (I happen to actually LIKE women. It's one of the reasons some of my best friends are lesbians--we have similar tastes!)   I learned a long time ago to only allow people into my life who truly like people.  I don't allow anyone to stay in my life if they're lacking in kindness, compassion, empathy, and a sense of humor.  Life's too short for that shit.  We're DESIGNED to love one another!!!  It's really the "Meaning of Life" (the Universe, and Everything").  Not 42.