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JULY 7, 2008 @ 09:19 PM

Tis' time for an update.

It's been a twisted and upsetting... yet enlightening few months.

Tim and I broke up after 2 years of dating and called off the engagement. It was probably the most difficult experience I've ever been though... yet best thing to happen now that I took some time to process, reflect and move on. He finally is moving his stuff out, I'm getting a new roommate and I'm loving the freedom of doing whatever I want to do, whenever I feel like doing it.

I did manage to lose my weight! I got down to 110. I took a vegetarian pledge for PETA for the month of June and I'm going to continue to be vegetarian... well a Pescetarian, I love my fish. smile

And I adopted a new love of my life 3 weeks ago - Tobias (named after our favorite never-nude). He appears to be an American Bulldog/Dalmation mix and he's about 56 pounds. I love him, even though he is endlessly demanding with his teenage years energy and ADD. He knows sit, stay, lie down, and come and is pretty housebroken.

Doggy advice needed:
• I've been trying to take him to the park but he tramples over the little dogs with his clumsiness and tries to hump everyone else.
* I put him out back to go potty and he's great, however when I put him back there for more than a few minutes when I'm busy and can't watch him that second, he will bark and yip and whine. I try to ignore it until I'm ready to let him back in but I'm afraid I'll annoy my neighbors.
* He tries to get up on the table and counters. I say no or make a sharp noise to get him down but he still tries when I'm not looking
* He has a TON of energy. How long should I walk him?

That is all for now, peekture time!
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Sureality

Sureality

Brighton, MA
September 2004

JUL 08, 2008 06:28 AM

How are you?

macskander

macskander

Tallahassee, FL
January 2003

JUL 08, 2008 06:38 AM

Sorry to hear about that. Though it sounds like you've found a great dog.

Just walk him until he gets tired, or you do which ever comes first. wink

Stiles

Stiles

New York, NY
November 2002

JUL 08, 2008 08:00 AM

Sorry to hear about the relationship drama but glad you're back.

I used to run a pet care business (12 years) and walked a lot of dogs. The cable show "the dog whisperer" has a lot of very good advice on how to train hyper, unruly dogs. Watch a bunch of episodes and do what he does, with an emphasis on consistency. He's good and his methods are sound.

Diablolipop

Diablolipop

Forest Lake, MN
February 2004

JUL 08, 2008 09:27 AM

the dog looks like a cutie!

first off the humping is the dog showing the other dogs that hes dominant and that they are his bitches. if you dont approve of this behavior, stop him from doing it and make him lie down belly up and prone in front of the dog he's trying to hump. that or a super soaker is about it.

dogs dont separate as a family unit, when you leave him out there alone he thinks that your never coming back. make it a reward to go outside look up
k9 separation anxiety on google and find somthing that works for you and him.

counters, squirt gun or binaca and a command like OFF, if he still tries to get up there, try listerien or somthing like the stuff that you use to stop kids from biting their nails (bitters) put it on the counter when he gets a whiff he wont want to get up there.

until hes pooped, do you have a treadmill?

i have two dogs theo is really high strung amy is mellowing out. but there both young pit bull rescues. find a basic obedience class and get him into it, best thing we ever did.

hope it helps

Trahern

Trahern

United Kingdom
March 2003

JUL 08, 2008 12:21 PM

*hugs*

Sounds like doggy needs all around training. I vaguely recall there was this thing where dog owners could go somewhere and a pro would spend an hour or two showing them what they should do... apart from that, I suggest walking him for as long as you have the energy. He'll always have more.

Twwly

Twwly

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

JUL 08, 2008 01:19 PM

Dog:

2 things -- crate training and castration. LOL

LiquidSunset

LiquidSunset

Pomona, CA
August 2006

JUL 08, 2008 04:00 PM

That sucks about the breakup.. They are always the most painful things we go through in life. If you're sure it's completely for the better then more power to you! smile

At least the new love will help you stay occupied! I would suggest enrolling Tobias in an advanced dog-training class. Good luck!

geekgurl

geekgurl

Philadelphia, PA
June 2003

JUL 08, 2008 06:20 PM

What a cute puppy!

We should hang out sometime and catch up. smile

dkmfc

dkmfc

Germany
January 2003

JUL 08, 2008 07:58 PM

that sucks that your relationship imploded.
glad to hear you're doing good though.

Sick

Sick

Minneapolis, MN
June 2003

JUL 09, 2008 05:14 AM

Walk until exhausted. Either you or the dog. (He's an American bulldog? Oh...I guess you did say that. I was just going by the photo. Anyway, you've got a lot of walking to do.)

Counters. Firm "no" and remove him when you catch him. Be consistent. He'll probably catch on eventually.

Back yard. I'd go with Diablolipop on this one.

Humping. Don't get discouraged and stop socializing him with other dogs. It's important. Just stop him humping when you catch him at it, again with the, "No." Consistency.

Actually...I think consistency is just about the key to all of it.

Good luck. smile

Infinity

Infinity

Piscataway, NJ
June 2004

JUL 09, 2008 03:57 PM

sorry to hear about the relationship ending - difficult as it certainly was, you've taken the time to reflect on it and are ready to move on.


i don't have any advice to offer about the dog - but there is a dogs group here on SG in case you haven't already seen it...

softnsweet

softnsweet

I'm lost
June 2003

JUL 09, 2008 09:07 PM

Glad you are back here. I recommend you find an experienced dog trainer especially since this guy has learned some bad habits. Trainers of course train US to be more effective and consistent parents of our dogs.
Regardless of his bad habits he will probably be less work and less demanding that a human boyfriend at this time.

ymonster

ymonster

New York, NY
February 2003

JUL 09, 2008 09:51 PM

That dog will be as big as you one day.... Glad you're doing well. smile
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BKWill

BKWill

Hunter, NY
October 2002

JUL 10, 2008 08:31 PM

Congratulations on getting a dog. I'm glad to see that you are moving on in life. It's about where you are at now and the happiness you find, don't be a stranger. biggrin

Imnutz

Imnutz

Philadelphia, PA
December 2003

JUL 10, 2008 09:01 PM

I have a 50 lb. pit who is a bundle of energy. You only live a few blocks from me. If you're interested in setting up a puppy playdate at the 12th and tasker dog park let me know. I try to get over there at least once a weekend.

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